Domina Mari

Protocol

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The minute our time together begins, I will begin to pry into you, dissect your being and work on crafting the emergence of someone new. Creating beautiful symmetry from jagged parts, I am your architect, sculpting every untouched crevice of your body and soul.

Read through my entire website, including my booking protocol, etiquette and my interests before booking a session. Those that I deem fit to serve my house full time shall complete rigorous training.

 

Etiquette


A primer for the seasoned player and an indispensable guide to those just beginning their journey.
Click on a question to receive an answer.

New to the World of BDSM, Domination or Kinky Companionship?


Don’t worry, it's okay ot be nervous or hesitant. Plenty of my clients are new to BDSM and have never fully experienced a dominant woman. To set your mind at ease, I offer a 10 minute consultation (phone, email or text) to screened clients prior to our session. Note that I do not discuss my tribute or agree to any requests for activities. I merely provide consultation around your desires and fantasies so we can determine if you are a good fit.

Some people fear that they'll be in over their heads, others are unsure of what they truly want. Trust in me, and I will take you on a journey you won't soon forget.

How to Reserve an Appointment


Fill out the submission request or email all pertinent information to dominamari@protonmail.com. Read both my policies and be sure to completely fill out my request form. Don’t be nervous and don't hold back.

Allow 24 hours for a response (Patience, I know you're shivering with anticipation). From there I will arrange a time, date and location for our time together. I offer a 10 minute consultation via phone, text or email (after screening) to ensure we are compatible.

Once your deposit is recieved, your booking will be confirmed. Be sure to message me if you have any concerns or questions in the time between your request and the actual booking date. I am happy to arrange a mutually convenient time to chat about our session on the phone, as I like to hear from you directly.

Presentation


I will confirm our appointment the day of via text message to make sure you're ready to go. I'll supply you with directions to my location.

When meeting in public or for an outcall, Discretion is very important. Do not ask reception for room information, I will text you my location or meet you. Once we are behind the safety of walls away from prying eyes, we can get personal.

Hygiene


I expect a certain level of care to your personal grooming. The restroom will be stocked with soft fluffy towels and a selection of toiletries will be available for use for you to freshen up. Shower, Clip your nails and be sure to brush your teeth before the beginning of the session. You are welcome to do this at home but I request that it be within 30 minutes of us meeting. I should also mention that I do have something of an appreciation for a man in sexy briefs.

All my implements are cleaned prior to our session. I arrive to our sessions showered, clean and ready to get frisky. I always use protection and practice Risk Aware and Consensual Kink. I get tested reguarly and do not go through with a booking if I am not in good health.

If anal training and prostate play is on the agenda for our time together, I require that you properly flush and cleanse your system prior to our time together.

Tribute


Place your tribute in an unsealed envelope within clear view of me within the first 5 minutes of our time together, then excuse yourself to the restroom. If we are meeting in public, be discreet and slip the envelope into a gift bag or in between the pages of your favourite book and leave it on the table.

If you'd prefer to pay electronically, please inform me of your desire to do so at least 48 hours prior to our meeting. Payment will be due in full, prior to my arrival. I accept E-transfer and PayPal.

Still Have
Questions?

 

Do you see couples and groups ?


Yes. A hedonist at heart, I take pleasure in a ménage à trois (or more), public or private group play and performances for the kinky voyeur.

I also recognize that some of my desires are not always a gentleman’s cup of tea, so I’d be delighted to invite my friends to fulfill a fantasy that would be of interest to them.

Please note that I do not switch or take on submissive roles.

Do you see people like me?


I do not discriminate against anyone who chooses to worship me. If you have any specific needs or accommodations you’d like to discuss prior to our session, indicate it in the submission form.

Can you do xyz?


Let it be noted that I am not a menu and you do not get to pick and choose the criteria of our session. Each session is bespoke to your needs and require careful planning. I prefer to focus on crafting authentic moments rather than scripted ones.

Rest assured, your interests are taken into consideration and I will work within your boundaries. To view my interests and skills, click here.

Do you take special requests?


No reasonable request for certain activities to be included will go unconsidered. Although every session is tailored to your preferences, If your fetish requires specialty equipment or falls outside of my area of expertise, it may require some time, training and additional fees to realize.

Special requests are to be made at least 1-2 weeks in advance of our appointment (see my booking policy). If you have a specific clothing, toy or furniture request that currently falls outside of the scope of my wardrobe, purchase and shipment can be made to ensure a timely arrival for our time together.

May I write a review of our session?


You will be permitted to chat openly and casually after the session through text or email. Feedback is incredibly important to me and I encourage you to use the time we have together to speak to me one on one about your experience.

I'd appreciate if you would give me a heads up before you post a review of our time together, as I may decide to feature it on my website. I prefer my reviews how I prefer my men: tasteful and discreet.

Can I make a same-day appointment?


No. Book 48 hours in advance. For play sessions requiring specialized equipment that must be ordered ahead of time, please book 3-5 days in advance.

How come you didn't answer my email?


I usually answer requests within 48 hours.

I don't just share my time with anyone. I look for those who’ve gone the extra mile to capture my attention, who include screening information unprompted and who respect my time and attention. I especially appreciate when you outline your interests and desires with detail.

If your email goes unanswered, it's probably because you neglected to do these things. Try sending an follow up email in a few months to see if I'll accept you.

Do you offer reduced rates?


Absolutely not. My rates are non-negotiable. To try to negotiate my tribute is a sign of grave disrespect and I am unlikely to respond further.

Domina, I'm in need of a Reference!


If we've had an appointment within the last 6 months, I'd be happy to provide you with a reference. Simply email me when you intend to list me as your reference and I'll keep an eye on my inbox.

What if I cannot partake in your screening process?


All clients that meet with me have been screened. If you cannot meet my screening requirements, unfortunately we cannot meet.

 

Booking Protocol

 

RESERVATION POLICIES

I require 24 hour notice on all bookings. The minimum time for an encounter is 1 hour (I occasionally offer express sessions of 30 mins during the beginning and end of each financial quarter).

Specialized Services

For play sessions requiring specialized equipment that must be ordered ahead of time, please book 3-5 days in advance.

Travel

Want a sadistic getaway you’ll never forget?

A seventy-two (48) hour notice is required for domestic travel (North America) and a seven-day (72) hour notice for international escapades. For travel, I require a deposit fee which includes the fee for airfare, lodging and dungeon rental.

View my Travel Offerings.

TRIBUTE

A 20% non-refundable deposit is required prior to an appointment. For bookings 2 hours and under, a deposit of $50 is required.

Deposit

Deposits are payable by e-transfer at dominamari@protonmail.com or through PayPal (processed through a discreet email that will not be tied back to me).

For gentlemen who require more discretion, you may pay by gift card at my favourite shops.

*Please note that I only accept tributes in USD (international) and CAD.


CANCELLATION POLICY

If you cancel our time together, your deposit is non-refundable.

If you are late, there will be no extended time or discounts allotted to our time. You snooze, you lose. If you would like to reschedule, your deposit will carry over to the rescheduled date. Otherwise, you will be refunded the full amount (deposit not included) for out time together.

Returning and established patrons, if you cancel within 24 hours of our appointment, I expect you’ll reimburse your total session fee, in part or in full, as a sign of respect.In the rare case that you or I cancel, I will refund you for our time together (including your deposit).


SCREENING POLICY

When booking for the first time screening is required without exception. This establishes trust comes out of a desire to uphold our mutual discretion. Verify your identity one of two ways:

1) The name and contact information of at least 2 reputable companions or pro-dommes with a web presence that you have seen in the past year.

2)
A link to a professional profile with a photo of your face (ex: LinkedIn or corporate profile) with:

  • A picture of your Drivers License, Travel Passport or Work Badge with Photo next to your face

  • The mainline of your office including your personal extension or work e-mail

  • A copy of a bill with name and address on it

In both instances, be sure to include any board handles you use.

I may require additional screening details based on my levels of comfort. Mutual privacy is a concern for us both. I handle all our correspondences through an encrypted and secure email address and phone number. Since I understand the need for discretion I have a separate number and e-mail account for verification purposes. I will delete all information sent to me once we have met.

*For trans and non-binary individuals who do not have access to a proper ID, please indicate this to me on the booking form and we will make arrangements.


FACILITIES

Outcalls

My outcalls take place at a luxury establishment and/or dungeon of my choice.

A travel fee is charged, consisting of transportation to and from the establishment and all other incurring expenses.

Incalls

Incalls are available at a discreet location near downtown Montreal.


THE EXPERIENCE

Before our session

Scene details, boundaries, limits and permissions are be discussed in advance and confirmed once more before by phone or in-person prior to our appointment. In seeking such a session you agree to give yourself over to me.

Care, communication, consent are paramount to establishing healthy and tantalizing dynamics. For your convenience, I'll send you an email or text the morning of our session to confirm with you and supply directions to our location. If we are meeting somewhere, I'll will confirm the address and time by your preferred method of contact.

After our session

I provide aftercare to all those who bow down to my altar. Your preferred forms of aftercare are discussed prior to our session and are constantly morphing according to the level of play we engage in. You will be properly cared for and looked after.


MEDICAL CONCERNS

Please indicate if you have any medical concerns that might impede our play session in the booking form. This will allow me to adapt the play session to your accessibility needs.

GIFTS

Arriving to your appointment with a gift or written letter of gratitude does wonders for my impression of you. Or perhaps you enjoyed our time together so much that I’m constantly on your mind? When you fantasize about our next encounter you can send me a gift.

Gifts must be wrapped or enclosed in an envelope and presented in a gift bag. See some of my favourite gifts here.